The Most Authentic You Membership

With monthly access to the Most Authentic You Membership, you’ll get access to the Membership Community Page, where you’ll be able to get real-time written coaching support from me. You’ll be able to ask me all of your dating and relationship questions, get coached to help you uncover new perspectives, strategies and learnings about yourself, and also witness other clients get coached to broaden your learnings, build relationships, and receive support from others who are also on this journey.

In this membership, what you put in, is what you get out of it. The quality of your questions, your ability to be curious and self-reflect, your openness to see things in a different perspective, taking accountability where appropriate and trying new tools and strategies, all have the power to get you meaningful shifts and results in your love life.

The reality is that no matter what different strategies you try on your own, you keep doing it from your vantage point, from your beliefs, and from your default patterns and coping mechanisms. This is a chance to explore seeing things in a new way so you can finally get that result you’re looking for. My goal is to help you in any way that I can, and share my knowledge and expertise from what I’ve seen work with myself and my clients, and pay that forward to help you on your journey to navigate relationships in a more authentic, aligned and harmonious way. I can’t wait to coach with you!

And if coaching in a community isn’t for you and you want a more personalized experience where I can coach you in a 1-on-1 setting, and go even deeper to help you uncover what is blocking you, and healing those patterns that aren’t serving you so that you can experience the love life you know you’re meant for even quicker, sign up for a complimentary consultation and let’s start coaching 1-on-1..

How my programs work

This program is an open, inclusive, safe space where my clients can be all of themselves. In this program we talk about the raw, sometimes hard-to-hear, messy truth about what is really going on that is holding you back from getting the relationship you want.

My clients show up ready and committed to do the hard work to create meaningful change and results. They invest in themselves because they know they are worth it. They do the growth work for themselves, for their (future) partner, and for their future generations.

They uncover unconscious blocks and default behaviors, and learn how to attract a partner who fully sees them for everything that they are, while instilling healthy practices that allow them to experience more intimacy, connection, meaning and fulfillment.

Hi, I’m Victoria

After solidifying my career as a consultant in NYC, I realized that I felt like I had it all: a great job, friends, family, health, hobbies, nice vacations. Everything except for a partner to share my great life with. After a couple long-term relationships in my early twenties, I found myself single for seven years, having pseudo-relationship after pseudo-relationship with unavailable partners. So I started to look inside of myself to see what I might be doing in order to attract this.

I worked with various dating and relationship experts and was able to uncover blocks that were getting in my way, as well as learn invaluable skills that I believe everyone should know for building a solid foundation with a partner.

After years of studying the research and science behind dating, intimacy, relationships, energy and mindfulness, and learning from the best experts in the field, I gathered the tools that actually work and want to pay that knowledge forward so that more people can experience the love life of their dreams!

This is for you if you experience any of the following:

  • You live a full and abundant life yet your love life doesn’t match that. It’s the one area of your life leaving you, your friends, and family wondering “Why?”
  • You act as your confident, secure, fun, authentic self in most aspects of life, but with romantic relationships, you struggle to show up in the same way
  • You’re growth-oriented – you read the books, listen to the podcasts, go to therapy, and invest in yourself – yet still struggling to figure your love life out
  • When you’re really into someone and the stakes are high, you find yourself getting activated and defaulting into patterns that you’re frankly tired of. Those “Ugh, I did that thing again” moments. You’re finally ready to heal these patterns
  • You find yourself realizing that partners aren’t good for you way too late and want tools to be more discerning
  • You aren’t attracting the person that you want. Or you attract great people, but they don’t stick
  • You find yourself attracting emotionally unavailable partners, avoidant partners, or anxious partners and want to uncover why and how to change it
  • You want to build a secure attachment style and partnership
  • You find yourself settling, betraying yourself and your standards, or putting up with relationships that leave you with your needs unmet and wanting more
  • You want to learn how not to lose yourself in relationships
  • You want tools to experience a love life with ease and less suffering
  • You want to attract a masculine partner who courts you. Or a feminine, soft, warm and nurturing partner. And you’re wondering where they all are
  • You’re sick of unhealthy communication patterns
  • Your relationships feel like a roller coaster ride, experiencing push-pull dynamics or chaotic ups and downs that leave you exhausted
  • You want to be able to connect and communicate with a partner in ways that you can both feel seen, understood and celebrated, so you can spend more time on your connection, and less time in conflict and disconnection
  • You don’t understand why relationships are so hard for you. You feel like there might be something you’re missing. And since you seem to be the common denominator in all your experiences, you’re willing to look inside of you to see what you can learn and start applying differently

Gain access to the Most Authentic You Membership