When I came to Victoria for support in my relationship, I was half-in and half-out. I didn’t trust myself or my gauge of what was an appropriate level of conflict in a partnership. I was finding all sorts of opportunities to talk myself out of being with my boyfriend, when in reality I wanted nothing more than to experience more closeness with him in a harmonious and connected relationship.
In working with Victoria, I discovered that my own thoughts were what was creating the majority of my internal conflict in my relationship. She helped me to see that my partner and I indeed love each other very much, but we were failing to acknowledge and register the acts of love we were showing one-another. Victoria supported me to calm myself and my system enough in the moment to be able to learn new ways of communicating with and relating to my partner that created more love, connection, and harmony. I am so grateful for coaching, and I am so grateful for Victoria!!! Her warm, supportive, non-judgmental, and wise approach allowed me to change myself and the trajectory of my relationship. We are happier than ever, and I have never been more excited for the future and what lies ahead!!!