As you get to know your partner the topic of money will inevitably come up. 

Money can be very personal to people and principles around money can be a value that’s very important for a couple to share.

Understanding how your partner relates to money and where their money beliefs come from is a crucial first step to be able to connect and thrive in the areas of finances in your relationship. 

See some questions to ask on a date that can help you better understand your partner’s relationship with money. While some of these questions might be better suited for after you’ve spent some time together, or for when you’re already in a relationship, some can be discussed as soon as a first date.

  1. What kind of things do you like to spend your money on?
  2. What are some of your goals related to money?
  3. What was your family’s relationship with money growing up?
  4. What would you like to do in your retirement?
  5. What does money mean to you?
  6. What does being financially stable mean to you?
  7. What are your hopes and dreams related to money?
  8. What’s your biggest fear around money? 
  9. What do you need to feel safe when talking about making or spending money? 
  10. On a scale of 1-10, how often do you think about money?

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